What I Do
About Jessica Hartley
Client Relations & Relationship Specialist | M.A. Psychology
With over 15 years of experience working in high-trust, relationship-centered environments, Jessica Hartley specializes in guiding individuals through complex interpersonal situations with professionalism, discretion, and emotional intelligence.
Her work has focused on building meaningful relationships, supporting important life decisions, and providing personalized, high-touch client experience grounded in trust, communication, and care.

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Relationships Saved
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Years of Experience
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Session Hours
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Unique Programs and Retreats
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FM Radio Shows
The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step...
Professional Background
Jessica Hartley is a client relations and relationship specialist with extensive experience managing private client relationships from initial intake through long-term engagement. Her work has centered on helping individuals navigate emotionally significant life transitions while maintaining professionalism, confidentiality, and strong relationship stewardship.
Her expertise includes client onboarding, relationship management, conflict resolution, and providing attentive, personalized support. She is known for her calm presence, emotional intelligence, and ability to build trust quickly across diverse personalities.
Jessica holds a Master’s degree in Spiritual Psychology and a Bachelor’s degree in Psychology. Her academic training, combined with over 15 years of direct client work, reflects a deep understanding of human behavior, communication, and the importance of creating environments where individuals feel valued and respected.


Relationship Coaching & Private Client Practice
In her private practice, Jessica has worked closely with individuals and couples navigating some of the most pivotal moments of their lives. Her approach centers on helping clients strengthen communication, deepen emotional awareness, and create greater stability and connection in their relationships.
Through this work, Jessica has developed exceptional skill in supporting clients through emotionally sensitive situations while maintaining professionalism, confidentiality, and trust. Her ability to listen deeply, understand underlying dynamics, and guide individuals toward meaningful resolution has resulted in long-term client relationships and consistent referrals.
Her work is grounded not only in academic training, but in extensive real-world experience supporting individuals through meaningful personal transitions with care, clarity, and integrity.
Teaching, Communication & Leadership
In addition to her private client work, Jessica has taught interpersonal communication and emotional development, led workshops, and hosted a live talk radio show focused on relationships, personal growth, and communication.
These experiences have strengthened her ability to communicate clearly, connect with diverse audiences, and create environments where individuals feel comfortable, supported, and engaged.
Her professional path reflects a consistent focus on relationship stewardship, emotional intelligence, and creating meaningful human connection.
My Approach: The Chemistry Shift™
Through over 16 years of direct client work, Jessica observed consistent patterns in how relational dynamics evolve and transform. She developed a framework to help individuals shift internal patterns, strengthen emotional stability, and create meaningful relational change—regardless of external circumstances.
At the core of her work is the understanding that sustainable transformation begins internally, and that individual alignment naturally influences relational outcomes.
Here’s the wild part: you don’t need both partners to be on board to activate meaningful change. You just need one person brave enough to break the cycle.
Because energy is magnetic. When one partner heals, elevates, and aligns, one of two things naturally happens: the other rises to meet them… or reveals why they cannot, creating space for something more aligned to emerge.
What Jessica knows for certain is this: when you align with your highest expression, you naturally invite transformation—within yourself and within your relationships.
Over 16+ years, she has guided hundreds of individuals through infidelity, emotional disconnection, and the painful crossroads of “Should I stay or go?” And regardless of the outcome, the transformation is consistent:
They stop chasing love. They become grounded, self-led, and aligned—and from that place, everything changes.
This work became the foundation for The Chemistry Shift™, a structured framework rooted in emotional awareness, personal responsibility, and aligned action. It helps individuals create profound relational change by first strengthening their internal stability and clarity.
The most powerful aspect of this work is that it does not depend on external circumstances. It begins within.
As Albert Einstein said: “No problem can be solved from the same level of consciousness that created it.”
And the poet Rumi wrote: “Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.”
But Jessica likes to say it like this:
Love was never meant to be chased. When you raise your frequency, stand in your truth, and reclaim your power—you don’t beg for love… you become the force that draws it in.
And I can show you how.

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Personal Philosophy
At the core of Jessica’s work is a belief that trust, understanding, and genuine human connection are the foundation of every meaningful relationship. Whether supporting private clients, teaching, or contributing within an organization, she brings a steady, thoughtful presence and a commitment to helping individuals feel respected, valued, and supported.
Her work reflects both professional expertise and a deep respect for the human experience, allowing her to serve others with professionalism, care, and integrity.
Success Stories
My relationship suffered the ultimate betrayal and we couldn't get past the pain and anger we both felt. It took some courage, but Jessica Hartley's approach was powerful and efficient. What made the most impact for me was her tool-centered approach. It was so much more useful than talk therapy. She listened to the specific issues we were facing, gave us specific feedback, specific tools and taught us how to use them ourselves. Her step by step structure carried us through this process in a way that felt natural and effortless. We've overcome so much pain. We no longer have aggressive and hurtful arguments. There is no more blame or manipulations. Our relationship is stronger than ever, and I feel free to love her with my whole heart.
Aaron Andrews
Client
I began working with Jessica Hartley after my wife cheated on me and left. I knew I had to improve myself to become the man I wanted to be. Jessica was my greatest motivator. She helped me heal the pain and put myself first. She taught me how to speak with influence and take the lead in conflict resolution. I got over my ex and raised the bar. I am so much happier for it. My advice is this; find the time to invest in yourself & trust this program. Be radically honest and stay committed to the work and it WILL work for you. The ROI of this program yields so much more than anything else out there. You can only improve yourself, and as you do, you will find others improve around you. I absolutely recommend Jessica’s Program, in fact, one of those recommendations has already started working with her- she is that good.
Jason Scott
The wisdom that Jessica Hartley's program offers is so much more progressive than the other advice out there. She helped me feel a connection with my husband that I had not felt in a very long time. The hardest step for me was in being willing to face and take responsibility for my own upsets, even though I could justify being upset with my husband. Jessica was able to pin point the specific place inside of me where I was holding myself back from my own happiness. She empowered me to be the best of who I am and has given me tools that have stayed with me for the past 3 years.
Samantha Davis
CEO
Jessica Hartley has a warm loving presence. I was immediately drawn in and I felt connected to her. She is a talented teacher, a natural born leader and an inspiration. She has touched my heart and it is clear that she is meant to touch many lives.
Oren Harris
Motivational Speaker
Jessica is a wonderfully profound and caring soundboard who takes her profession of elevating human relationships very seriously. She is a safe, loving, confident and wise counselor. She was able to meet me right where I was at, and give me useful tools to do my part in making my relationship better. What I have learned through her has been invaluable. Highly Recommended!
Cardon Ellis
I completed Jessica’s Legendary Love Program 3 years ago and it was the best thing I have ever done for myself. I had lost myself with motherhood and marriage, and I came to Jessica when my marriage was about to fall apart. I had no idea how much my childhood wounds were affecting my relationship, nor how to deal with his. My Sessions with her were profoundly healing. I learned to take the reins of my own experience. Jessica helped us realize what unconditional love actually feels like. Her Program gave us the well-rounded healthy model of relationship neither of us ever had. It taught us how to self nurture, take emotional responsibility, have peaceful communication, hold space for each other and ignite our intimacy, I could say so much more… It was absolutely life changing for my own personal growth and is solely responsible for saving our marriage from divorce. Her dedication and passion to helping relationships thrive is so genuine, her heart is so big and I love that about her. I really couldn’t see myself doing this work with anyone else! She is amazing!
Zinnia Usry
Local Artist
Becoming a parent has tested every bit of my relationship. It has been so helpful to understand where my challenges are coming from and how to work with them for the good of all of us. Jessica's influence brought me so much peace and a deep knowing that I can handle what ever may come here on out. Her teaching has empowered me to give my child something better than I ever had. I can make a difference! I keep her voice with me every step of the way.
Melody Golden
Furniture Sales
My relationship was on the rocks. I thought we were past the point of no return and then Jessica Hartley happened. Her program broke through our walls and returned us back to our hearts and that warm chest melting feeling. All of our drama fell away and what was left was a boy and a girl, hand in hand, traveling the road of life and holding each other up to the best that we can be. Jessica saved my relationship and showed me what true intimacy really is.
Tasha Hernandez
Forestry Supervisor
Jessica's Program is worth its weight in Gold! Jessica and I worked one on one over the course of 6 months. I am so grateful to her for the powerful work that she has done in my life. She made me feel so safe and accepted so I could have the courage to face my truths and become a better person for my partner and my family. She really knows how to connect the human psyche to the human heart. She is the very best at what she does! If you need a miracle, trust your instincts... she is your gal!
Sarah Barette
Professional Dancer
When I started this journey I was stressed and full of anxiety; I was sick to my stomach daily and experienced chronic pain in my body... I was worried about everything, and really not a very happy person. I had been going to a traditional counselor in my town but was not getting anywhere. However, through Jessica Hartley's expert intuitive guidance, I have come to a truly wonderful place in my life! Jessica helped me realize my worth and my worthiness, my capacity for love and being loved. I have a confidence I don’t ever remember having. I stand up for myself now, where I never did before. Jessica pushed me when I needed pushing. Today, my life is a 180-degree shift- and no more chronic pain! Thanks to Jessica and my hard work, I am in control of my thoughts, I am really enjoying my life, and am experiencing success in all areas of my life! I have recommended her to several of my friends and will continue to do so without hesitation!
Dan Bartos, Potter
Jessica Hartley is highly regarded as a powerful Marriage and Relationship Coach within the professional community. She has incredible perception into what's going on beneath the surface. I highly recommend working with this intelligent woman. Her program has set a new standard in the field of Marriage Transformation. Her structure, tools and personal coaching have proven to provide all of the necessary components that can keep families together and cultivate deeply fulfilling relationships for her clients.
Balbir Brar M.D
M.D.
This program pulled me out of the biggest struggle of my life. Tears of joy stream down my cheeks because working with Jessica and her program has transformed my life and my marriage, in ways I did not think possible. The tools, Jessica’s incredible insight and her ability to dig deep and get to the heart of the matter, every single time are so powerful.. you will be amazed. This program is so much more effective than traditional therapy. My favorite part was the 'Done for You Date Nights!' This program will teach you how relationships are intended to work, and once applied, these principles will change your life too. After 26 years of marriage, my husband and I are having so much fun together…we have become two peas in a pod!
Carrie Shepherd
Client
I was at a loss- somewhere along the way my wife changed. We had grown apart and the resentment was mutual. I couldn’t fix things on my own- without losing my self-respect. Jessica Hartley stepped in and saved our Marriage when all else failed. She understood the inner workings of men & women and gave me the direction I needed to be the bigger person and to take the lead in my relationship. I applied Jessica’s insight and got the exact results from my wife that Jessica predicted. I was empowered by having a strong woman’s perspective ON MY SIDE. Things changed quickly & dramatically- that is how I know I finally got it right. In the end, my wife was so grateful she sent Jessica flowers & a “Thank-you” letter -which speaks for itself.
Scott Halsted
This program is nothing short of magical! We were struggling for years and he had already given up on “us,” so I did this program on my own, without my husband being aware of it. As I moved through it step by step, I watched as my husband transformed and began to genuinely re-connect and rebuild our relationship with me. We healed things that haunted us for years. I feel his connection and deep caring for me like never before. We are in a whole new place, we have each others backs and now I am confident that we always will.
M. Peterson MD
M.D.
We had a very bad separation. Neither one of us trusted the other one. I wasn’t sure if this program would work, but we still loved each other and wanted to make one last big effort to turn it all around. Jessica Hartley taught me to be the bigger person and ignite a powerful chain reaction. The actions I took in my relationship created the positive effects I needed to feel. She became more trusting, respectful, less reactionary, and more loving. The changes I felt in her made me want to be my very best & even more loving back towards her… on and on. We went from anger, separation, and mistrust into feeling completely cared for, respected, and loved by each other. Jessica is a strong coach- I loved her willingness to call bullshit! She pushed me further than I thought I would ever go in regard to personal introspection and my role in the relationship. When you begin this program, I urge you to be as honest as possible and TRUST Jess. She has your best interest in mind.
Joseph Bongiovi
Jessica created lasting change. Thanks to Jessica, I am the person that I have always wanted to be. She offers guidance without judgment, and without making you feel like what you were doing before was wrong. She is an amazing individual to bring into your life. Her warmth, her heart and her words always stick with me. Jessica has uplifted my relationship and my life!
Nicole Handley
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In just 60 minutes, we’ll take a look at the areas of your relationship that are the most challenging, frustrating & painful and create a custom-built plan to achieve what you want in your relationship. Together we will map out the essential steps you need to thrive. *You can create an ideal relationship with or without the direct participation of your partner.
This is your perfect way to get a taste of how I work and see if you’d like to work further with me.
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