About

Meet Jessica.

Joyful, Edgy, Open Hearted, Bold, Creative Innovator, Powerful Visionary & Lover of LOVE.

Who am I?

I am a wife, and a mother, a Relationship Transformation Coach and a Spiritual Teacher.

I am a genuine being, connected to my calling.

If you’re ready to crack open and shine, I will step in and transform your reality as you know it.

I provide the essential elements for re-wiring your past to gain the ability to embrace your ideal future.

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The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step…

As a child, I did not have the best model of love to follow.  My father was alcoholic and abusive.  My parents divorced and my mother struggled to find love again, moving through boyfriends and husbands.  As I grew up, I learned to protect myself from further pain, creating a lack of self worth, fear, resentment and control issues along the way.  I did not believe or trust in real genuine love.  Once I began dating, I was scared of  commitment for fear that I would end up with an unhappy, unhealthy, struggling marriage.Screen Shot 2017-10-09 at 7.16.57 PM

Then one summer at 17 years old, I fell deeply in love.

Now I had a big conflict between what my heart wanted and what my brain was ready to protect me from.  Despite my childhood circumstances, I’ve always been insatiably drawn to understanding the failures and struggles of the human psyche.

As time went on, I felt like I was okay. I prided myself in being self sufficient, I read all the books and was always trying to sift through what I could do myself until I got to a point where I had reached the level of my self help plateau. This was the point at which I understood all the actions and I knew what I needed to do but I still wasn’t doing them in my day to day living. I realized that I needed help to actually get to the root of my thinking and to my automatic thought patterns that didn’t serve me and I couldn’t do that alone. I had to take my own leap of faith, trust my intuition, and dive into the depths of my roadblocks and childhood conditioning to finally free myself.

I wanted to know, what exactly is it that makes a relationship work?  What makes people genuinely happy, successful and fulfilled in life?  Why do so many relationships seem to start off with so much love and romance but end in bitterness, resentment, breaking up the family and divorce?  And my biggest question was

Why do so many people struggle and fail endlessly in relationships while others find a way to thrive, often even despite the most challenging circumstances?

I was determined to crack the code.  

Fueled by my heart, I dedicated my life to the research, education and study of legendary relationships and the human psyche. Along the way, I picked up a Masters degree in Spiritual Psychology, faced my own deep wounds and applied all that I was learning into my own relationship.Screen Shot 2017-10-09 at 7.18.33 PM

Not only did it help us survive the trials of adolescent love, it uplifted our relationship to a level of love that my prior fearful mind could not even comprehend.  It reached beyond what I thought was possible.  In a world of such high divorce rates, I knew the value of what I had discovered and began teaching the concepts to anyone who came from a painful past and was ready to change the tide of their future.  In my early work…

I found that most relationships were failing even though they understood basic concepts, because of 2 things.  They were operating from a flawed view of the world and they could not get past the control of the automatic brain.

I soon realized that learning to operate from a new view of the world, while important, is only the first step.  They would also need to actualize and integrate these concepts as their new norm.  This is where standard Marraige Counseling has completely failed to meet the needs of these hopeful relationships.  Not only is talk therapy outdated and takes much too long, it still works in a dependant view of the world and it does not provide any means to re-wire old programing with new insights.  No wonder divorce rates are still climbing!  I began digging around and I was shocked to realize that there is currently NO such structure to support re-wiring the brain to create lasting change in relationships.

 I soon realized that If I truly wanted to influence lasting change and make a radical transformation in relationships, I had to create something new.

Rather than just deliver concepts and information, I had to deliver a proven structure so powerful that it works to re-wire old habits, old patterns of thinking and facilitate a new way of being.

I would have to stand out among the crowd and be the first to create a program that gets results AND prove that the results last over time.

Determined, I set out to innovate a program that would stand alone.  I hired a team and began to Screen Shot 2017-10-09 at 7.33.08 PMdevote myself to daily and relentless progress, giving this project nothing less than my very best.  If my program was going to be the ONLY program to provide this level of depth and personal transformation, I wanted it to be the very best of what my clients need so they can finally embrace a life of deep connection, complete devotion and REAL Legendary Love.

The Legendary Love Program is a direct result of this application and study, tested and compiled into the essential elements, tools and solid integration structure to re-wire a person from deep pain into deep lasting love.

What I bring to the table is my own personal experience.

What I offer is beyond words and theories, it is a powerful reality-changing experience.

I have been where you are and I have found the way out of it through years of investment, relationship research, personal development and formal education. This program is so powerful that one person or both partners can move through and will save your relationship once & for all.

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If you need a miracle…  If you need help re-wiring old habits, if you need a bold coach and a powerful structure that finally gets it right, if you need the visuals, the road maps and tools to learn by, and if you are dedicated to claim the life you were meant to have, I am confident that this program was designed especially for YOU!

I want you to know that you are not alone.  There are many couples that have been struggling.  For every 10 people that get married today, 4- 5 end in divorce while 3 of 10 of them feel trapped but stay married surviving the unhappiness.  That means 8 of 10 marriages are playing out a cycle of perpetual dysfunction.  New research shows that our quality of life and happiness is directly related to the quality of our relationship and “high conflict marriages turn out to be very bad for immune function, life expectancy and brain function, perhaps worse than getting divorced.”  We also know that conflict in relationship dramatically effects the quality of relationship and the well being we bring to the future of our children as they become adults themselves.  But I know that neither of these scenarios is what you planned for your life.  Right now you are at a choice point, what you do or don’t do with this phase of your relationship will determine what happens next.

I work with couples that did not have an ideal model of love to follow

Most couples give up on their marriage all too soon because they just did not have the right tools, right support or the right core foundation of love to base their relationship on.  Without which, they are exhausting themselves by searching in the dark, and coming back to the same old patterns over and again.  They must be able to heal the road blocks of past conditioning before they can embrace a completely different model of love that works.  And that is where I come in.  I reach into that dark cave and show them the way out and into the field of Legendary Love.  I am a bold game changer, here to serve, uplift and transform through grace. I am motivated by altruism, personal mastery and an enthusiasm for spreading the experience of a full, thriving, heart-centered Legendary Love life, which is unfortunately, a reality untouched by the masses.  About half of my clients are couples and the other half work with me as the individual who’s partner has already given up.  The program works powerfully and effectively to save the relationship in both scenarios.

​You can spend the rest of your life growing more deeply in love with your best friend.

  However, with so many ready for change, I am not interested in becoming your crutch or dragging this process out.  This program does not drone on like years of therapy making only little changes along the way.  It is as bold as I am, it gets right to the point, giving you multiple breakthroughs each week.  It doesn’t leave you hanging, because it provides you with the structure to re-wire your brain and change your old habits.  It empowers your relationship and creates lasting change.  You will become the model for others around you.  It is so powerful that it is only available to highly motivated individuals who are willing move beyond the discomfort they feel and into their own freedom.  What they learn trickles out into all of their relationships and their world is forever changed.  Due to the in depth nature of this Legendary Love Program, I only take on new clients by referral or members of my active facebook group.

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